My dear Tim, my heart aches for you.Somedays are harder than others and I woke up today with tears in my eyes missing you. Life has not been the same , although I hadn't seen you for a long time you were always in my heart and mind, and i can't seem to go back to life as it was since you left, I go through the motions but you are always there. Thoughts of wishing I had known how alone and sad you were, how you felt you could just not face another day on earth. Knowing you had never dealt with the pain of the past and how it haunted you  and magnified your troubles was so terrible. Wishing I could have put my arms around you and told you how special you are and always will be to me and that you were such a gift to your family.No one knows on earth how another heart feels , they may have their judgements and opinions, but you are now beyond all earthly constraints and understand the fralities of humanity and their struggles, may this give you comfort  and knowing I love you my son and will see you soon. Love mum

Dear Family,

I haven't seen Margaret (Margie, as David called her) in quite a number of years - not since we visited their family in Dayton on our way home from Maine. Peter was just over two months old, and Teddy was a newborn. We had such fun with our babies, and it was a great opportunity to really know Ted. I remember Margaret as a happy, loving spirit. She was beautiful - in and out. I have wonderful memories of the wedding in Maine.

God bless you all, as He has blessed Margaret by taking her home - free from all pain and suffering. Thanks be to God!

I have read some of your messages to John and i know how you feel....it is so hard to lose our child at no matter which age....your love for him shines thru on this forum....I hope God will give you the strength needed to carry on.

Dot

JOHNPAUL,

IT'S ALITTLE AFTER 3 A.M. AND I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO UPLOAD SOME PHOTOS BUT IF YOU CAN REMEMBER HOW COMPUTER ILLERATE I AM THEN YOU CAN RELATE.  I JUST SEEN A QUOTE THAT I FEEL IS APPROIATE.

DEATH ENDS A LIFE..NOT A RELATIONSHIP... REMEMBER NO MATTER WHAT WALK OF LIFE YOU ARE EXPERIENCING...I AM YOUR MOM..THEN.NOW AND FOREVER. I LOVE YOU BUD.

                                                                       MOM

you are always in my mind and soul. i love you.

                                                     mom

JOHN,

YOU ARE LOVED AND MISSED EVERYDAY. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN

                                                      LOVE,

                                                              MOM

    SON, YOUR ARE IN MY HEART AND THOUGHTS DAILY. THANK YOU FOR BRINGING ME THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU DID AFTER YOU PASSED. IT WAS AND CONTINUES TO BE A COMFORT KNOWING THAT YOU ARE O.K. I HOPE THAT WHERE-EVER YOU ARE THAT YOU WILL BRING AS MUCH JOY TO THEM AS YOU HAVE TO YOUR FAMILY.  I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TERRIBELY. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.

                                                          LOVE,

                                                      MOM A.K.A.  TAM-A-LAMA                                            

The hole in the heart and soul will never go away but perhaps in time it will get smaller. Goodness knows I hope so. This site is so helpful it reminds us we are not alone with this horrific pain. I have trouble connecting with people emotionally now that my daughter is no longer with me. People think they understand but they really don't unless they are walking in our shoes. I have no patience with those who don't realize this impacts every inch of our lives. Do they not realize that there are times we are just withdrawn because we are protecting ourselves from future pain. My daughter was an only child... talk about burying your future! she would have been 38 yesterday.

It has been 3 years and 1 month since my daughter was killed. I still struggle every single day with the severe pain of my best friend and daughter not with me, the horrific way she was killed, the loss of her life-future. The nite i receieved the call to tell me she was killed, i still cannot remember what they said, but i knew......then driving to the scene the song and words i kept hearing were "NOTHING ELSE MATTERS", a song i never really listened to before but only heard on the radio.

From that nite i have ALWAYS felt as ive lost my mind and have been in a sureal world.....

I try so hard to move on, as i have another 24yr old daughter with 2 grand children but it is like going thru the motions without feelings,

i want to feel and move on and i just cant without my baby-(. i just exist

thanks for listening

'shannon

After losing Zoe suddenly, this site has become my solace and helps me when I have a particularly bad day.  It brings me ever closer to her and my cherished memories. 

This site is such a wonderful way to be able to be alone with our loved one and with others who are also feeling the same way.

Dianne Sinclair-Gibson

I LOVE THIS SITE. IT IS SO NICE TO GO BACK AND READ SUCH NICE THINGS PPLE POST ABOUT YOUR LOVED ONE. I WANT TO THK THE PERSON WHO ALLOWS THIS.

I will keep you in my prayers. There are no words that help but know your in our prayers.  I will say he is with you everystep of this journey.

 I lost my mother to colon and liver cancer almost 2 yrs ago on 7-16-2008.  She was sick for 3 years, was on Hospice and my siblings and myself took care of her 24 hours a day for the last 6 months.  I miss her so much.  I know I will see her someday in heaven again.  I also lost my brother to suicide 16 yrs ago, he shot himself in the head with a gun, he was an alcoholic but that day he was sober.  My 18 yr old daughter just lost a close friend to suicide also a week from high school graduation.

 VM has launched an official Facebook page.  We look forward to connecting with all of you

My Brother Ronnie will be in Heaven Two Years in 15days on June 4Th. I miss him more and more with each passing day. I am holding on to Jesus and I know one day we will meet again in Heaven. I wanted to thank every one that has visited with us these last two years. Thank you for all of your love and support and comfort you all have given to me . May God Bless you all and I pray for strength for us all.

I FEEL LIKE I HAVE LOST MY RIGHT ARM, BUT KNOWING HE IS AT PEACE AND NOT

SPENDING EVERY WAKING HOUR LOOKING OUT FOR EVERYONE ELSE HELPS ME

First time here on the forum, feeling lost without hubby..5 years on the 16th of this month.  How I miss him,

Thanks for listening

On Saterday is my sisters birthday. I would give anything just to have her once more beside me, to give her a big hug and tell her that I miss her AND that I love her so much.I love you prensess.

My baby girl got her wings almost 4 years ago, and I want everyone to look at her site it would mean so much to me its like i'm the only one who shares the memories. Michaela Frisch  click the first picture in teh walker. Thanks with love and prayers Carisa

Today is my Momma's AngelVersary. As long as I live I will never forget her or this date.I miss her so much.She was the best Mother in the world to me.I can still hear her sweet voice,smell that sweet smell,and see her beautiful smile.It scares me to even think any of her memory could ever fade from me.She deserves to be remembered in every way and I will do everything in my power to keep that going.I love you Momma!!!!Fly gently with the Angels....Rose Brodhacker

I miss my Momma so much.I so wish I could share her with the world again.I miss making her that special page for her Birthday this year to share.Happy Birthday In Heaven Momma,I love you....

I miss you so damn much. It's been 6 and a half years and its as if it all happened yesterday.

There has been so many overdoses and suicides on the news lately and it just breaks my heart knowing what is ahead for the family. It's such a roller coaster of emotions.

Your brother Travis is having some medical problems so please watch over him ok!! <3

Love you always and forever Brian.

Love Mom <3

PS - Vonnie I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers alwayS. I have missed talking with you. Are you on fb?

I've been on virtual memorials for four years now. I lost my daughter Heather Clapper in 2006. In these last four years I have met so many wonderful people here, all here to celebrate the life of someone  that they loved. My heart goes out to each and everyone who is here.

March 20th Heather's daddy Grant went to be with her in Heaven, he died from lung cancer. His three children watched as thier daddy lay there gasping for breath for 15 hours before the Lord took him home. They are making  a memorial for him. I would like to ask anyone who can to visit his site and sign thier daddy's guestbook. I know that it will give them strenth, I know because it has helped me more then anyone will ever know to hear comforting words from so many caring people here when my daughter was killed in 2006. thank you and God bless

This site is wonderful. it helps me cope with the loss of my grandpa. I was just 9 years old when it happened, and it still hurts, 5 years later.

I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE ON HERE, THIS SITE IS JUST PERFECT, ISN'T IT? WHO EVER CREATED THIS SITE, MY THANKS ARE TOO HIGH TO BE EXPRESSED. I AM GRATEFUL FOR THIS SITE, AND EVERYONE HERE WHO'S LOST SOMEONE, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSSES, AND I HOPE THIS SITE HELPS YOU, LIKE IT HELPED ME. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

SUEANNE.

What is the memorial ID? We Lost our Sweet Angel Brett 3/5/06  God Bless You for this Beautiful Memorial, I Belong to Compassionate Friends, Four Year, & Bless with another Beautiful Son Gregg 38 on St.Pattys Day A wonderful Husban of 40 years, Two Beautiful Awesome Grandsons, & Still have that hole in my Heart, We all talk about, We All belong to that Group of parents, NO ONE should ever walk in our Shoes, Please Never Let Us Forget The Siblings, They Say when you lose your parents, You lose your Past, Lose A CHILD you Lose your Future, Well Same for the Brothers & Sisters,We All must remember that! Never to have neices or nefues, they lost so much as well, GOD BLESS YOU ALL, YOUR ALL IN MY PRAYERS LAURA

I will always remember my dad for he is always with me in my heart.

I have forgotten my pass word to your memorial and cannot access it due to program not hooked up correctly ????  I love you and always will

This is for my Brother Jon Scholl.. His birthday is on 2/29/68.. He was a Leap Year Baby. We always celebrated it on 2/28 if there wasnt a 2/29 that year.. I use to tell him when he was younger than sorry Charlie you dont get a birthday this year.. LOL    I love and miss him so much. ; )

This is for my Brother Jon Scholl.. His birthday is on 2/29/68.. He was a Leap Year Baby. We always celebrated it on 2/28 if there wasnt a 2/29 that year.. I use to tell him when he was younger than sorry Charlie you dont get a birthday this year.. LOL    I love and miss him so much. ; )

This is for my Brother Jon Scholl.. His birthday is on 2/29/68.. He was a Leap Year Baby. We always celebrated it on 2/28 if there wasnt a 2/29 that year.. I use to tell him when he was younger than sorry Charlie you dont get a birthday this year.. LOL    I love and miss him so much. ; )